Depressing life freshmen fall
I remember a month ago bitching about not getting into selective finance clubs . But I got into the most selective investment fund/finance club at my school . However , I feel very lonely my inability to get a girl has truly been fucking with me mentality a lot. Many of my friends have mad sex while I do nothing. I realized I'm only good at being a grinder and I just don't know how to get a girl let alone talk to one . I never had any friends that were girls before. I try drinking and talking to girls still no success. Should I just give up on girls and focus on the Wall Street grind. How does one not become a hardo if they cannot get girls because aren't getting girls show you are a personable person .
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Try to be more open/extroverted especially with girls. Just be you and you'll for sure find someone who's worth your time. Ain't no need to rush
Obviously attraction is important, specially to them but I don't think you look like an ogre lol
But if you're under 5'9, it's gonna be hard
我应该放弃大声笑我黑色，也狗屎5英寸7.5，所以我操了
race has nothing to do with this lol
这是一个粗略的组合，但是一旦有了钱，您就会对年龄较大的女孩更具吸引力。这是生活的事实。随着现金状况的增加，短而丑陋的变化变得不那么障碍。
I am a girl. Freshman year just started. Take it slow! But if you need advice, girls like men who are confident and go with the flow. You won't vibe with every girl, that's just a fact, but I am sure you'll have some success! Also don't sound desperate and don't pursue a girl too much (ignore them a bit, we like push and pull dynamics).
PS: Use condoms or even better, don't have random sex, get tested and stick to a partner!
你碰巧高大，有吸引力和运动能力吗？如果是，那你很好，只需获得一些信心
He's 5'7.5 lol
Gym
“如果您总是对自己所做的一切，身体或其他任何事情都限制，它将扩散到您的工作和生活中。没有限制。只有高原，您不得呆在那里，您必须超越它们。“- 李小龙
这一个。我发誓我rks.
If you don't know how to talk to one, just start doing it. Start with classes and stuff, talk about common interests. Better yet, rag on classmates or professors.
It comes down to being fit, well-groomed, and radiating self-confidence. The fact that you're posting about your height and stuff is hilarious lol, just go out and get in shape and have fun. Don't be overly awkward lol.
For reference, I'm 5'8 and I get numbers all the time and I even reject girls now and then.
I lift a lot I run a 5 min mile bench 255 @ 160
Okay good. Now you just have to actually go out and talk to girls.
请记住，社交技能就像学术技能。如果您每天不练习它，您的技能会变得沉闷，最终会变得无聊。没有人愿意和一个无聊的社交尴尬大声笑的人一起出去玩。
You run a 5min mile? Like 5:00? Where?
“如果您总是对自己所做的一切，身体或其他任何事情都限制，它将扩散到您的工作和生活中。没有限制。只有高原，您不得呆在那里，您必须超越它们。“- 李小龙
I think I know who you are. We talked on Reddit a bit. I'm the guy who goes to Stanford. Either way, bro, just relax. Freshman fall sucks for a lot of people. Your first goal in college from a social perspective should be to make good male friends. Doesn't have to be guys but make friends with similar interests/aspirations, not just girls you find attractive. Girls come and go but guys (actual friends and not romantic interests) will be with you throughout college and beyond. After you do this, you can meet girls through your friend group pretty easily. I promise, from a social perspective, you will feel HELLA good if you have actual good friends who you can count on and who can support you. More important than getting girls, which you will also be able to do easier through a friend group. Also, the height thing is a fucking myth imo. I'm like exactly 5'7.5 as well and I have no problems and the guy I know who gets the most pussy is like 5'5 or 5'6 and ripped as hell. It's all about confidence and how you conduct yourself. Also stop thinking that being black hurts you lmao. Chicks are ALWAYS into black guys. You just need to gain confidence and not think that you're inferior.
Hit my dms. Plesse
Lmao depends on the social class they belong to, I don't know any girl who is. Even the most hardcore liberal ones only date whiteys. That's absolute cope and you're sentencing OP to a life of pain and suffering if you lead him to believe that.
From my personal observations typically really athletic white girls will date really athletic black guys as that's something time intensive to bond over (workouts/food/etc.)
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Do you feel the same way as your friends? Or are you only into white girls
Pm me back bro
嘿，我没有看到你的答复。兄弟，你能再次找到我的reddit吗？这样容易。
if you sent me a pm on here I can't see it.
女孩，女孩，女孩！您选择的单词（如不断使用“女孩”）有点揭示了您太绝望了。当您在周围时，这种心态会伤害您的吸引力。保持这种心态将使您的女孩有时会让您的女孩，但是调整这种心态将大大提高您的成功率。当您遇到“女孩”时，将他们视为普通人，而不是以“结果”为导向，而是专注于了解他们的“体验”部分。较轻的注意，低于5分钟的英里非常令人印象深刻，就像您认为不会进入选择性金融俱乐部的方式一样，这只是新生跌倒，有一定的耐心，一切都会很好。
只需开始与所有人交谈。帅哥，女孩，教授，看门人。这样做会1）帮助您更加外向，2）让您能够与您与之共识的朋友和女孩结识。
You've found the right forum.
不用担心约会...这几乎可以肯定是NPV负面的。
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Even if it isNPV消极，在真正重要的情况下获得一些经验并发展成熟（又名成年后）是否有帮助？
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Sure but my point is he's not really missing out if he's unable to do so.
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Goddamn there have been a lot of posts on here recently relating to dating/girls/love life…
To answer your question: there's a lot more to life than being a "Wall Street hardo" or having "mad sex". Focus on yourself, your interests, and living jn the moment - I know it might sound cliche, but seriously, you have your whole life ahead of you. Don't get bogged down in FOMO over your friends and their sex lives.
[Isaiah_53_5 ] we need a more elaborate answer to help this poor lad
Pizz you're an expert as well, give the man some advice
Fucking hell one of these again
just use fucking google, every incel has the same problems so the advice usually will work
你只是1 4失败者去弄明白
致电.... [InvestmentBankingTurnedMegay]
EQ is really important
Go deadlift and listen to hardcore
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